You’ve Been Blocked™ Series: Volumes I and II Learn How to Unblock What Has Been Blocked Externally and Internally

Unblocking with The More Desirable U-Factor YOU’VE BEEN BLOCKED™ NOW IT’S TIME TO UNLOCK AND UNBLOCK. THE UNBLOCKING OR “U-FACTOR” MAY BE A BETTER APPROACH THAN STRIVING FOR THE M-RANKING™ VARIABLES OF PSEUDO-PERFECTION

UNBLOCKING WITH THE “U-FACTOR”

THE U-Factor VARIABLES OF INTERNAL ACCEPTANCE CAN ACHIEVE UNBLOCKING:

  • Internal Satisfaction vs. External Approval
  • Insightful and Informed vs. Shallow, Detached and Unaware
  • Integrity and Humility vs. Insincere and Shallow
  • Independence and Individuality vs. Cloning and Conforming
  • Intimacy vs. Blocked Superficiality: Unblock to share your reality with another or others

This is a more constructive list of qualities to consider as opposed to the “M’s of the M-Ranking™ pursuit for perfection. Individual or group therapy can offer a forum for discussion on how this different set of characteristics and values can positively deflect and off-set the tendency to gravitate towards what some gay men perceive to be a seemingly normal draw within the Gay Male Community (GMC) of the LGBTQ.

When reviewing the list of variables composing the U-Factor, how would they or could they apply to you in your life personally and also externally? Consideration could be given to enhancing awareness and connection to these goals, values and characteristics. This focus may be more beneficial than the more typical gay mainstream shallow values of the M-Ranking,™ regardless of what it seems that other gay men are involved in

*Also, if you are a gay man who already feels more evolved, you may have moved past the M-Ranking pursuit. Staying closer aligned with the U-Factor variables can be a useful tool; it can help to manage dealing with other gay men who are less able to contain their tendency to be consumed with the M-Ranking™ pursuit of perfection.